04-22-2007, 12:09 AM
Still in Limbo Wrote:Don't feel bad, I'm in the same situation. My wife and I had a great sex life before my lower back injury. Now I have numbness issues you know where,and you can realize the problems that brings! WE are trying to work through  this problem but believe me you are not alone, it has been devastating not only to my male ego, but also the guilt of knowing I can't give what I should to my wife. Pain is hell, w/c is hell, and I can only hope things get better for you, you have my thoughts and Prayers!!
Still,
I hope a doctor can adjust your medication or give you something to help in the sex dept...in my case, my husband felt that I'm "damaged goods" and wants to be with a whole woman with no health issues! No problem, I can't be happier!
Babebahn..."Tongues don't have erasers"
Injured 1999 3 level anterior cervical fusion 2001
Settled Work Comp Case 2006 w/ Lifetime Medical Currently, C7-T1 is being watched will possibly need surgery front/back fusion from C3-T2, lower back needs another facet injection.