Losing it

[capricorn]

BAg.....I also agree....wonderful post....thank you.....after a horrible day yesterday which came after 2 good days.....I couldn't take anymore. She cried and talked for 8 straight hours....keep in mind neither my husband or I are well......I did the best I could..then they started to text each other and I wanted to hit her, throw something at her or worse yet tell her to leave......Here is my turn on this....IF you want him ...take him as he is...stop trying to change him and complaining about everything he does THEN when he leaves turn my life upside down....this is the 4th breakup.....when they get along..they are meant for each other....BUT they both have this dysfunctional side that makes things like this happen....he siad she broke his heart too.....so now I fell as if there are definitely two sides to every story and don't want to say anything anymore...their relationship is between the two of them. I'm there for her BUT this BS needs to stop.....I ama nervous wreck....I've been up since 6:00..have a headache and she's still sleeping peacefully....my oldest told me to go wake her up and tell her to go home....I can't do that. Her and I will have a long talk when she gets up....they are taking another week off from each other...I suggest they both work on themselves through this time. I love you guys and don't know what I would do without you.xoxoxoxoxo