Maybe this will help

[capricorn]

Limbo..Badboy and Red....I think you are all right. He wouldn't be human if there wasn't at least a little depression going on with all his body has been through and how his life has been altered. It bothers him so much that he can't help me with anything. He does take elavil and maybe that needs to be upped right now but I think it also makes him sleepy......Badboy...I sleep like you....up early for weeks , then I get my days that I am very comfortable with 16 straight hours or several naps for a couple of straight days. Red.... I never thought of it ....but he either forgets his morning meds totally or sleeps so late that they have become afternoon meds.

We went out last night to a cousins party on his side of the family. Really nice group. Had a nice time just sitting around talking and eating. He had a smile all night. I had sciatica all night (woooooHOOO) , only my luck. He kind of kept trying to get out of going but I thought it would do him good. Told him we could leave in an hour if he wanted to. We ended up going at 7:00 and not getting home until 12:30. we haven't been out after dark in so long I don't remember. Rebels we are.

[Still in Limbo]

That was Probably Good Medicine for Him to get Out, I'm Sorry You had to Deal with Sciatica!! Getting Out around People is Good, and makes You Feel like a Part of the World, so Many of Us are Home in Pain, and Only get Out for a Small amount of Time to Pick Up Meds., go to the Bank, or Dr. Appts. I have Dealt with Depression, and it's Heavy for Me Right now, with the Holidays and Winter Blahs, But I do try and Find a Bright Spot Every Day!! I went to My Son's for New Years, and I Usually had to Leave after a Couple of Hours, but I made Myself Stay this Time, and I Really Enjoyed it. Let Your Husband know that Many Here Care about Him, and Hope He Fells Better Soon!! My Wife Never Believed in Depression, She always thought it was a Cop Out People Used so They could get Attention, until She has had to Watch Me Deteriorate and Fight for the Last 5 Years, and now has Taken Back every Word She ever Said about Depression, when She Finally felt it Herself! Your Husband May be the Same Way, and not know how to Deal with it!!