he Sweetness of Marriage

[bronco54501]

Now I believe that this is not true ....(u dont want to be with them dont marry them).... For some peole maybe but not us we have been together since 1991, and when we first moved in together we took our trips together, but we also took them apart as well.. I am a outdoors person and I would spend 2 to 3 weeks between SC and the gulf shores every year... She would go visit her mother on base in CO and every year went to vegas.. We trust each other and trust is needed to make a relationship grow strong... Did we miss each other heck yeah but we talked every couple of days.. I think it makes the heart grow stronger...... Sometimes we just need our space, as she is always telling me, "dont you have somthing to do"............LOL..

[jayne]

Never felt that way about Bill....course we were seperated many times because of his job......but unless we had to we always were together....I have a hard time getting to sleep when I cant reach over and touch him.....to do it on purpose naw just not our cup of tea......trust him with my life...with my childrens life, but I need him everyday....I am glad he feels the same way

[sweet tooth]

i trust him with my life if i didnt he wouldnt be here . we just cant be apart sorry if i ruffled feathers but thats the way it is with us and i dont see anything wrong with it

[jayne]

no problems sweet we all have different marriages thats how it works......if I had my way Bill and I will die on the same day I cant imagine life without him

[Tuffy]

When I was married, I bowled on a league every Monday nite for years, I went to my church circle, etc My hubby had a nite out with the guys bowling, I went on trips with my girlfriends and he went on camping/fishing trips. We never had a problem with that. He had his likes and dislikes and so did I.
Every marriage is different, But I needed my time . I am very independent and do not like to be a clinging vine, or someone clinging to me all the time. Maybe that is why I am single now.......

[bronco54501]

No Tuffy...thats not why your single..... It's your choice and I believe it all depends on pre marrige life.. Ya see I dated Tammy (my wife) for 10 years before we wed... Even though we lived together 7 out of 10 we still had our outings and had different intrest... When we were young we did have our spats and both went our seperate ways, but not once did I ever think of cheating..... As Jayne said cant stand to go to bed with out Bill and this is true with us too.... I will admit after my near fatal death I do have a new out look on life and enjoy her company every moment we have....... As I would be lost with out her...... We all have different marriges and its a personal preference which does keep it together.....

[Tuffy]

Yes I understand it is my choice, and I have had a few chanches for remarriage, I guess I just haven't met the right person, Or as the old saying go's (once Stung) My husband cheated on me and I got out after 16 years of marrage and never looked back. I don't mind sleeping alone, I have married friends that sleep in seperate beds, go on seperate vacations and still have good marriages. So You are right it is a personal preference..