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monster · 12-02-2008, 11:19 PM

Congrats on #3 CC Smile

I'll pray for a happy healthy pregnancy and baby.

I feel horrible for not mentioning family the first time. I thought we were talking about food etc so the first thing that popped into my little peeper brain was soda and smokes!

BAD MONSTER, lol...

jayne · 12-03-2008, 08:52 AM

I too thought family was a given sooooooooo we are in the same boat...dont rock it monster this desert rat cant swim

red1030 · 12-03-2008, 10:01 AM

Yea you too..smiling...stay out of the water... the sharks are hungry

It actually started with jewerly and then I talked about family and it seem to move in that direction...there were no wrong or right answers monster.... you can keep your Dr. Pepper and smokes. You are not a "bad monster" (smiling) I will try to call tonight ok...love ya both Red

RNvic · 12-03-2008, 10:32 AM

I have to agree I thought family was a given. I would be lost if it wasn't for both my children and family as my forum family they are what keeps me grounded and gives me a reason to get up every day.

~~capricorn~~ · 12-03-2008, 11:43 AM

Monster I agree with Red. There was not a right or wrong answer. When CC started this I believed it had to do with material things and that family was a given. I tried to answer with everything I had so as not to be "bad" as you felt . I am still not comfortable here all the time, leary of what I post, and that makes me hesitant to answer. I don't need to feel wrong or less than adequate right now. I 'm sick enough. The forum has become different to me over the past couple of months. It has really become a diversion to me from my own problems. I still thank God that I found it.

CAP

jayne · 12-03-2008, 12:07 PM

diversion huh? mmmmmmmmm Hasnt it always been a place to go where you are loved warts and all? Biggest problem is we all have to give the other guy the same consideration and sometimes we dont.....We have to remember there is only one lead cow and thats Admin......course I have no idea if hes a bull or steer not that it matters.....
Its winter time we all get a bit freaky.....worries seem to blossom and pain gets worse during the winter.....We have to take what one posts with the knowledge we cant see body language and he/she may be funning with us.....And if you dont understand.... ask......I would much rather someone say Jayne just what do you mean,I dont understand... than take it wrong and jump me cuz then we (I)just go into defense mode.....
Then again we arent in kindergarden anymore we dont have to totally agree with one to stay friends.....Real friends allow you to have opinions and other friends without making you choose sides.......JMO and with it and a buck fifty you can get a cup of coffee

~~capricorn~~ · 12-03-2008, 12:53 PM

OK Jayne...I 'm going to ask you now. Why did you just feel the need to come back at me? What did I type that you took offense to since none was intended. I feel as I do and am entitled to my feelings. Right or wrong they are mine. You post things that I feel are horrible sometimes and stay out of it because it's not meant for me, you weren't talking to me, etc. So I am very confused about the kindergarten crap that you are using AGAIN> Yes this has always been a place for me to come and be loved warts and all and all I said is that it's different to me now. Maybe I'm different. Why I ask have you taken offense to that and feel the need to come back at me when I wasn't even speaking to you but making a general answer to the group. Monster, Red and RNvic have also posted but I am the only one you seem to feel the need to come back at. Did I jump you? if so I apologize but you really need to point out what words I used and where your name is written in my last post for me to understand just what crawls up your butt when it comes to me. Unless I tow the line here , you are the one that goes into defense mode and that really isn't my problem, but you are making it mine. I have two choices here, leave and at this point it would be because of you,honestly I probably won't because it's not a habit of mine to give ANYONE that much power over me, or ignore everything you say. You are the one who keeps at it about friends. We bantered through the election, Disagreed. WHO CARES????????????? I don't, it's OLD NEWS> but again you bringup friends having their own opinions. REAL friends also what's in someone heart. What did I say about anyone not having their own opinion???? What do you find so juvenile that you speak of kindergarten. PLease explain yourself.. I would also like to know why you feel everyone is entitled to an opinion but me? I don't think there is another person on this board who I have offended and if I have i really wish they would say something. You appear to be a grudge holder. Please, please leave me alone then. Don't answer any of my posts and I will do the same. We are not friends. I cannot be friends with anyone who continues to come at me when they misread something I've typed. You know, I don't understand you most of the time. You say that you can't see the body language. Right, so why do you always think you can read mine, and yet feel the need to explain internet use to me. I know how e-mails and words that are written can come off when you can't see the person's expression. You insult me and offend me and think it's OK. I thought this was over with. You have never met me or I you. Please just let's leave it at this. I will stay away from all of your posts but expect the same respect from you. I have done this out in the open because I DO NOT expect any nasty PM from you or anyone else in regards to this. If someone has something to say to me they can say it out in the open. After the election crap I apologized to more people more times. I WILL NOT do it again.

jayne · (This post was last modified: 12-03-2008 02:05 PM by jayne.)

I think you are a bit too sensitive I was posting to a thread not you....but then again when it comes to me you bristle alot...crawling up your butt..nasty place I dont need or want to be there... again I believe you are over reacting...Nasty PMs again show one.......you need someone to attack so you chose me...again no problem I have wide shoulders you have a problem with me doesnt matter how much I apologize or ignore you find a way to attack go ahead as long
as you are after me everyone else is safe........But again it can be solved by you ignoring me as I will post where and when and to what I please unless the lead Bull bans me.......so you see we are fine and both know where we stand

~~capricorn~~ · 12-03-2008, 02:26 PM

I posted the word "diversion" you are not posting to a thread but to me and you know it. Ingrate, back stabber? What in God's holy name have I been ungrateful for? Back stabber? Hon, you have NO idea what your :"friends" have told me behind your back. You and another of your "friends" have been labeled "unbalanced" by many. so whoever you are listening to that makes you THINK I am back stabbing you just continue on with. I have no idea what you're talking about but will end with this. First you know I cannot produce PM on an open forum nor would I. As far as I was concerned it was all over and done with BUT to my disgust it is not. Personality disorder??? I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. END of conversation. You know very little about me and yet you claim to know it all. You have no idea what's up in my life right now because I haven't shared with anyone here. I have not said one word to you until now since our debates through the election. I don't know who has been attacking you but it hasn't been me. You're the only one who feels "unsafe" around me. What's that all about? Do I intimidate you? Do I not do as you say? Does that piss you off? Is that the problem? That I didn't let you bully me. You are a hypocrit and a fool. I will now put you on my ignore list so I never come across any of your BS again. I will also stay away for awhile so others can feel more comfortable since you seem to feel you are keeping everyone safe from me. Jayne, you really need to stop talking for others. I have had more people tell me crap about you and never in the couple of years I have been here have ever let it interfere. Now you have made it impossible for me not to listen when I am told you have done this many times before and have been behind people leaving here before.

jayne · (This post was last modified: 12-03-2008 02:35 PM by jayne.)

Geez girl get a grip...I will be the first to tell you me and others on here are unbalanced...it saves on the booze.......