the art of marriage

[hurt at work]

a good marriage must be created.
in the art of marriage the little thing are the big things
its never being too old to hold hands.
it is remembering to say,(i love you,) at least once each day.
it is never going to sleep angry.
it is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
it is standing together facing the world.
it is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
it is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating in thoughtful ways.
its having the capacity to forgive and forget.
its giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
its finding room for the things of the spirit.
its a common search for the good and the beautiful.
its not only marrying the right partner.
its being the right partner.

[jayne]

Amen...hurt Amen

[collateraldamage5591]

That is so true, Hurt!

[sweet tooth]

i liked that /soon be 43years for .us

[hurt at work]

well im not far but its been over 13 years but were getting there. (:

[red1030]

Hurt..that was very good.... and so true...I believe something that is missing but the poem is very suggestive of it, is to be friends. My husband will always be my best friend and it started when I was almost 11 years of age until now. He will always be my best friend. Love Red

[hurt at work]

thnx red i am such an easy person lol well you know what i mean he he he easy.just kidding........its hard these days to get couples to see that no one is perfect im not thats for sure just read my post that tells the story about me.but im not mean,i over look thing that most get pi@@ed about and there is no reason for.in my younger days and im not that old if you looked at me funny i was pi@@ed but since i got hurt things have changed for the good for all man kind lol.i am a better person than i was back then.it funny people come up to me and talk that i dont know and the wife is like who was that and i like i dont know thats just me now i can talk to anyone.so ladies man can evolve......he he he thats my story and im sticking to it, and its TRUE................... (:

[sparkey]

Communication is # 1. That is what I think keeps a marriage strong. My husband told me not to long ago that I was his best friend. We have been married 27 yrs. and together 31. I am proud to say, I am so happy to be married to this man : )