Off Topic "Hope in Hardship"

[Dallas307]

I know this is a bit long but think worth sharing...

Hope In Hardship
Anything Can Be Overcome

The journey that each human being makes through earthly existence can have hardship as often as it is touched by joy. When we encounter adversity, the stress we feel can erode our optimism, eventually convincing us that the issues we face cannot be overcome. In truth, there is no situation so dire, no challenge so great, and no choice so bewildering that it cannot be overcome. Though we may believe that all avenues have been closed to us or that our most conscientious efforts will come to naught, we are never without feasible options. The best course of action may be veiled in doubt, but it is there. When we are honest with ourselves with regard to this simple fact, we can overcome anything because we will never stop looking for a solution to the challenges before us.

Self-trust coupled with a sturdy plan is the ultimate antidote to adversity’s tendency to inspire disillusionment in the human mind. As difficult as the obstacle plaguing you seems, it is no match for the love of a supportive universe that has been a part of your life since the day of your birth and will be with you forevermore. Try not to be misguided by your fear as this gives rise to the notion that there are problems without solutions. If you believe in your capabilities and dedicate yourself to the creation of some form of resolution, you will be surprised to discover that paths that were once closed to you miraculously open. Even if all you can do is change your perspective to turn an impediment into an opportunity to grow, you will have found the hope that is an inherent element of all hardship.

Remember that your destiny is a product of your own creation. Even when it seems you have nowhere left to turn, there is a solution waiting for you. The only insurmountable obstacles are the ones you create in your own mind—and these can only exert power over you if you let them. Uncertainty will always be a part of your existence, but perseverance and mindfulness will never fail to see you through to the other side of hardship where joy can thrive. Try and remember that no matter what life places at your feet, there is absolutely no situation that cannot be resolved with time, love, and friendship.

What do you think?

[tweety00]

Dallas I understand what this is about .. it is basically saying depending on How you look at things there is a sulution ..when you HAVE the control to change it .

I know my mindset has a alot on how I feel about myself but pain can be a huge detraction ..
If only in the W/C world IW's did have control is the only problem ..
i see both sides of this
i feel for the adjuster who is just trying to make a living
I feel for the doctors who are stuck in the middle
I feel for the IW who hurts
I feel for theemployer who wants to also make money and keep costs down
I feel for theIW who just wants that magic pill so they can go back to work
I just want my previous quality of life !!!

hope this eplains my opinion! Tweety

[chrischris]

I certainly agree that what may seem hopeless today, quite often has a total different and more hopeful perspective the next day. Everyone has bad days and some more often than not. Noone can judge what another is going through. I take the position that we need to help, not hinder those we come in contact with. Personal feelings and pride sometimes need to be put aside for the good of the community. People are people at best.

Right now is the first time in my life I have been reaching out for help and guess what? I am so blessed by ALL of you, and to my unexpected sources of help, I am so grateful. The most help I am receiving at this moment is from my IC's Claim Administrator, and I believe it is because she has put her personal feelings aside and is looking at me as a person who needs help, even though I haven't always been so nice to her.

Thanks Dallas!

[capricorn]

Good morning all.....

Dallas.........thanks you so much for the insightful and very helpful post.

Tweety.....I understand what you're saying. sometimes , as in a case where we are losing our homes, can't buy food we think it's all over. but with a clear determined mind we look around and use every avenue of help there is.

CC........and if all humans would always remember that we are ALL equal and human beings the world would be a nicer place to be in. Kindness takes less time than meanness. Yes we do have to put ourselves aside at times fo rothers in need. We've all proved here that we are capable.


Have a blessed day!
CAP