Red Darlin

[jayne]

I cant send you a PM or an email its gone from your contact page.....or is it me.....you hate me dont cha??????I am pouting

[backache]

She don't hate cha Hun I can't find it either..........OH MY GOD maybe she hates me too.........................................................

[monster]

I received a message from her before she disabled her PM's. I was at school when it came. She was talking about leaving the forum because of all the arguing and bickering that's going on right now. When she tried to step in and help it back fired on her. I can't really blame her, she tried to help and it didn't go well. She tried to delete the thread last night but the system wouldn't allow it. So now we have lost our Red and have no one to blame but ourselves.

[backache]

Red being a nurse and a very good one feels the need to help people. It is just her way of showing love...I think everyone should be allowed to post what they think can help others......

[monster]

I don't know if that's the only reason she left but it was bothering her pretty badly. She is going through a lot right now and getting ready to start her new medication. Any stress makes her MS flare and she just doesn't need it right now. She was having problems with her eye last night and one of her legs is weak as well. She said she will come in occasionally to read but I don't think she'll be posting.

[sweet tooth]

its just not going to be the same anymore

[backache]

I'll try to E mail her. I don't know if it will help or not........But I will wait a day or so to give her some time........

[monster]

I will stay in touch with her but I'm not going to pressure her to come back as I don't want to create more stress for her. I will miss seeing her and her little red car as well but I'm going to respect her wishes. If and when she feels ready to come back she will. Until then we will just make the best of things and see what happens. I'm sad and upset but I am seeing this on several forums and don't know if it's the time of year or what. It seems everyone is arguing and bickering. One forum got so bad they threatened to shut it down and that's a crafting forum of all places!

[sparkey]

They can shut down a forum. I saw first hand on them shutting down one that i was in for years. There was so much fighting going on, bad name calling etc. One day i went to go in the room and it was no longer there. People were PMing people to find out what happened and someone called AOL and begged for them to put it back on. They gave the room one more chance, and told them they best use the " ignore" feature or they would lose the room again.

Red, You are a wonderful person, with a very big heart. I am so sorry to hear that all this stuff as far as people not feeling like part of the gang is upsetting you. Like others have said and myself, sometimes unintentionally when someone post, it is overlooked. That is typical and happens alot. I myself, do not want you to leave this forum. You are loved by many and I also feel for what you are going through with your MS. As you and I know, I lived with my father having it. There is times when your up, and times when your down. Please take YOUR time and read and not post if that makes you feel better. All we want for you is to be well and get the help you need to be pain free. I will be thinking of you.

Thank you for being a lovely person, inside and out for all that are here on this forum. Like i said " you would give the shirt off your back for any of us".

[jayne]

ahhhhhhhh hell.......her feelings get hurt faster than mine do...............If I caused it then I am really very sorry and will take myself off for one week.........see you all next wednesday....if needed you all can find me on POGO under Billijane