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jayne · 10-13-2007, 12:21 PM

my sister Mona is in the hospital w/double pnumonia she is also bleeding somewhere as they were giving her blood but had to stop because of hi temp...(nurses if they need blood why stop because of temp) she is very week anyhow because she has been a drug abuser for 40 years....and to be quite truthful it would be a mercy (to her)for her to go to God....but I dont think my parents could stand to loose another child 2 of my older sisters have gone on. I am of two minds I hate to see her suffer but think it might throw my parents into a tail spin to see her go.....pray Gods will be done and that I am strong enough to abide by it.......

~~capricorn~~ · 10-13-2007, 12:35 PM

Jayne.....Prayers will be said for all. I understand how your parents feel. I buried my daughter 10 years ago. Cannot imagine doing it again with another. I willpray that God does what's best for all involved because I also understand where you're at.

God be with your family,
CAP xo

bothknees · 10-13-2007, 12:35 PM

That's a really tough spot to be in Jayne. You and your parents are in my prayers. Know that God's timing is Perfect, and I'll pray that your parents can rest on that as well.

monster · 10-13-2007, 12:36 PM

Jayne - you and your family are in my prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Remember, my sisters aren't far from you so if you need any help I may be able to send them to you.

Love,
monster

Sithie · 10-13-2007, 12:45 PM

oh Jayne I am so sorry hun. I am praying now and will continue that God's will be done here and he hold your parents close and give them strength. I also will pray for your family and you. I am here call if you need me. Monday they are sending me to Denver again.

K

jayne · (This post was last modified: 10-13-2007 01:12 PM by tweety00.)

I am doing what I do when I worry I am cooking..............I have pumpkin pies in the oven and pork ribs rubbed and resting fixing to put potatos on to boil for salad....anyone hungry gonna be alot to eat here....you all come on....Monster you please be on call for my son......Gads is there anything worse than a southern woman worried and in the kitchen?

monster · 10-13-2007, 01:19 PM

Jayne - you have a PM girl. I am now on call 24/7. I sent my cell number in case you had lost it...USE IT if you need to talk, vent or whatever and I will do what I can for your son if it comes to that. The good Lord will do what is best for all. Don't care what time it is if you need me call!!!

Dallas307 · 10-13-2007, 01:35 PM

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

jayne · 10-13-2007, 01:40 PM

Monster you are a doll

Bummer Knees · 10-13-2007, 02:08 PM

Jayne I am so sorry to hear about your sister. My prayers are with you and your family. Please keep us updated.

My daughter died in 1995 at the age of 11 yrs. With the loss of a love on it brings back all of your previous losses, they are relived.

After my daughter died I helped with starting a support group for parents of children that have died called Compassionate Friends.

I had to come to terms that it was time for my daughter to go, she was very medically fragile and had 145 hospital admissions in her life, I always had a bag packed and enough cash to get me to the hospital along with gas in my vehicle. I was what is called a hospital parent.