WE need help : Update

[hurt back]

(07-17-2012 01:46 AM)scoobydee71 Wrote:  I just want to find another dr... i feel like this was my fault by going to this dr..But if you can only change once i don;t want to make another bad by picking another not so good dr. I thought about having him ask the adjuster if he can get a second opinion but then that would be a dr they chose and he wouldn't be on our side.

But she said something to me about my hubby ..he won't be presumed to be a wimp or as she said a p---y and i know this and i keep telling him if he does not speak up when they are making him hurt they won;t know how much... he thinks he's doing what he is supposed to do as a man and i have told him it just makes them think he is not hurt as bad as he is ...

As far as switching Dr's I would ask a/b your state, but here in TN its once and thats it, unless a Dr refers you to another for a specialized area ie nuerosurgeon, chiropractor, etc..

As far as your hubby in PT, tell him to only do what he can do... I tried to "exceed" what the lady was wanting me to do and she said don't over do it and hurt yourself, and also she had to write down a "daily progress report" of my workouts so if I do X one day and a smaller X the next time and so on its looks funny... So tell him to do only what he can and thats it... Its not work reinjurying himself or making his injury worse..