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[red1030]

Hi all... I said it on another thread but decided I would write it here for all to see and know the whole story. I am engaged and getting married January 14, 2012. It is a fast story in that Tom and I go back from the time he was born since he is a few years younger than I am.

I think I have mentioned that I have a very large family, especially here in Oregon. Tom was born to a women who was married to my mom's older brother and they had two children. That brother, his name was Jim was a pilot in a church plane and he was moving our church head quarters from eastern oregon to Salem oregon and his plane crashed in the McKenzie pass. Then Tom's mother married a man from Kansas..I am not sure how to spell Witchtal..I know that is wrong..help Bummer... then they had 4 more kids and Tom is one of those kids. The long and the short of it is Tom always thought he and I were cousins because we were told that. I knew differenty but never knew just how important it was to him.

The story continues that when Del and I separated his mother mentioned to him that I was back from the east coast and needed help moving. Tom was there at the house every morning before work and helped me a great deal. We continued our relationship as cousins who adored each other and then finally it all changed... and this is were we are now.

I am very nervous but my father and brothers are very happy. My kids are still adjusting and well my ex is my ex and there he shall stay. Tom is a great man and a very loved man here in my small city. He goes to church and loves God. He does have three kids of which 2 are out of the house. One is 13 and she lives with Tom most of the time so she has been with me for the past 2 weeks. She is now with her mother. Tom was married for 14 years and has not been married since Ashtyn was 12 years old. All in all.. it is all going well..just a lot of stuff to get done. I will update as time goes by. Love you all and miss you too

Here is a picture of Tom his daughter and me.

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[Bummer Knees]

Red the correct spelling is Wichita.

So there are Kansas roots in his family.............well that settles it you will be visiting Bummer one day.

I would have thought his daughter to be yours Red, she looks a lot like you.

I am very happy for you, a get together in Oklahoma or Kansas sound great! One request, no ice on the ground, please!

[bodybuilder1958]

(12-30-2011 10:07 PM)red1030 Wrote:  Hi all... I said it on another thread but decided I would write it here for all to see and know the whole story. I am engaged and getting married January 14, 2012. It is a fast story in that Tom and I go back from the time he was born since he is a few years younger than I am.

I think I have mentioned that I have a very large family, especially here in Oregon. Tom was born to a women who was married to my mom's older brother and they had two children. That brother, his name was Jim was a pilot in a church plane and he was moving our church head quarters from eastern oregon to Salem oregon and his plane crashed in the McKenzie pass. Then Tom's mother married a man from Kansas..I am not sure how to spell Witchtal..I know that is wrong..help Bummer... then they had 4 more kids and Tom is one of those kids. The long and the short of it is Tom always thought he and I were cousins because we were told that. I knew differenty but never knew just how important it was to him.

The story continues that when Del and I separated his mother mentioned to him that I was back from the east coast and needed help moving. Tom was there at the house every morning before work and helped me a great deal. We continued our relationship as cousins who adored each other and then finally it all changed... and this is were we are now.

I am very nervous but my father and brothers are very happy. My kids are still adjusting and well my ex is my ex and there he shall stay. Tom is a great man and a very loved man here in my small city. He goes to church and loves God. He does have three kids of which 2 are out of the house. One is 13 and she lives with Tom most of the time so she has been with me for the past 2 weeks. She is now with her mother. Tom was married for 14 years and has not been married since Ashtyn was 12 years old. All in all.. it is all going well..just a lot of stuff to get done. I will update as time goes by. Love you all and miss you too

Here is a picture of Tom his daughter and me.

My friend all that matters is that you are happy and that you are loved. All else follows shortly, I loved the picture. Blessings and prayers to all. When you love God, He takes care of you.

[jayne]

sounds great to me they are a lucky family to get you in it...Kansas is a great place to meet not so far from me and I can haul my trailer there...or Okla city is fine also.I cant wait.I now know id Del comes near Tom will deck him I am content...If Poppy loves him I love him cuz your Dad is Okay in my book.If I had the money I would be there with ya.enjoy yourself Lord knows you have enjoyed it....
should have killed the other one tho....