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Not gonna be around much
07-22-2010, 06:21 PM
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Not gonna be around much
My sisters Kidneys have quit working...so it wont be long now.....she isnt at home with me as I didnt think it was fair to all the children here to watch her choke to death....I do try to get to the nursing home 4-5 times a day I dont stay long as it is hard to watch as I find myself trying to breathe for her.For those of you that smoke I beg of you to try and quit it is a very pain full way to die both for the patient and the family member that has to watch you slowly choke to death.....I know its a choice yada yada yada I will shut up....I am so damn tired of watching those I love die you all stay safe...love you all

;)Workmans comp is not a road you want to travel alone.You need a good lawyer,a great family and good friends to lean on.If you make it thru without losing everything you have worked for all your life,you have come out ahead of the game.....Smile
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07-22-2010, 06:31 PM
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RE: Not gonna be around much
One day at a time Jayne. Thats all we can do!!!

8-05, Micro laminectomy/disectomy. 10-05 lumbar fusion L5-S1. 2-07 exploritory surgery. 12-07 medical implant, Spinal Cord Stimulator. now receiving SSDI. Jesus died for our sins. Soilders died for our freedom.
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07-22-2010, 07:00 PM
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Jayne, Been thinking about you the last few day.

I watched my mother die a slow death due to her heavy smoking.
My mother died in her home with my youngest sister being her main caregiver, I and my other sisters were there much of the time.

I do understand what you are going thru, this is a ugly thing to watch.

Prayers for you & your family.
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07-22-2010, 07:14 PM
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RE: Not gonna be around much
Hi Jayne,
Hugs and love my friend. Never easy watching someone you love pass on. My son-in-law's grandmother died just a few months ago from lung cancer. She had a hard time but she died with her family, surrounded with her loved ones. Just like your sister will.

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07-22-2010, 07:14 PM
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Jayne i am thinking of you these days, i hate being at the beach and enjoying it so much, when others are dealing with such times of ther lives. Will keep u and her in our prayers.

Cervical Fusion 2003, c5-c6. Herniated and damaged Disc L1- L4-L5 S1. Lumbar Spinal Cord stimulator implant 09-2008. Cervical ACDF revision with hardware c4-c5-c6-c7 Sept 2009.
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07-23-2010, 02:33 AM
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sorry to hear about your sister miss jayne will have her in our prayers remember your not alone you forum family loves you and i think i speak for everyone when i say that..take care..

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07-23-2010, 09:50 AM
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thanks everyone I right now just want it over with for her and for me......she is so tired of struggling for breath.....

;)Workmans comp is not a road you want to travel alone.You need a good lawyer,a great family and good friends to lean on.If you make it thru without losing everything you have worked for all your life,you have come out ahead of the game.....Smile
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07-23-2010, 12:04 PM
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Hang In There Jayne, Been In That Spot Before With My Sister And Father.Its Rough For You And All Of Your Family, You Have My Number If You Need A Shoulder, Shoot I Will Even Let You Rant And Rave At Me, Love Ya Jenn

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07-23-2010, 06:07 PM
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Love you all

The good news is,"You can get used to anything."
The bad news is,"You can get used to anything."
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07-24-2010, 08:24 PM
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jayne...I am so sorry I got to this rather late...have not been here to see it... I am here if you need anything. I know you have strength and a lot of support from your church members ... and am happy about that. I can't even imagine going through what you are going through... love you Red

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