so who cares

This post was last modified: 10-27-2007 02:50 PM by dolly313.

glad to hear from you all i can say is the lord is who i turn to in trying times . hope all goes well for you will keep you in our prayers

Imsckofit,
I wish you the best. I think you have made a great start and I pray that you will come to terms with your disability and your new life. There are many people here who have done just that. Maybe they and Wisdom can help you learn ways to cope. I know you can do it, just don't be afraid to ask for help. Being disabled does not mean you are worthless and can't do anything.
I wish you the best and I will pray for you and your family!

Imsickofit I am so glad to hear a more positive tone in your post today. I am glad that you are going to take care of you. You are special in our hearts and we will be here when you are ready.

Take Care my Friend.
Deb

imskcofit...I am so very proud of you. Your counselor sounds very caring and knowledagle. You are at a place where you must accept your disability. For me it was very similar to what you are going though...I had to accept that it wasn't that my life was over, but my life was moving on a differnt path than I had planned. A very wonderful Commander told me one day when I was struggling with leaving the Navy...she said..you are still on a ship...your ship is just moving in a different direction than this one...of course what she was saying is ..that I still had a life just not the one I had planned in the Navy...and you know what I did have one. I had to make a lot of adjustments in my life, I had to change my life goals, my lifes expectations and definitions of what a "good" life is..but it is funny how when you change those definitions your life looks pretty d....good. Now I have time to chat with my family here on line...I have time to love, laugh, and cry when it is right here on this line. I also, have more time to be with my grand kids, I have time to do what I love and that is paint...I just have to look out the window and see all the flowers and trees and or just watch a nice thunder storm with all its noise... life isn't so bad is it. It will be better for you as you change your definition of who and what you are suppose to be. You will move toward who you are, and then you will realize that you ...the real you...deep inside you...has not and never will change...you will continue to be that strong capable man you were when you worked, just strong under a different definition of what strong is.. and you will fell better about yourself...you will stop being angry and insecure and just learn to love life again..my prayers are with you... Red

you better stay in touch cuz I know I wanna know how you are doing

Wisdom says, if you keep saying you (can), that in time you will.

Wisdom says, if you fall off your bike, you will get back on it.

Wisdom says, if you sit all day and say you (can't) then you never will.

Wisdom says, that light that shines down on you, is there for a reason. Look up to it.

In Bad Boy's words, if you Fart you can't take it back, or change the way it smells, so it's another thing in life you learn to deal with is all.

This post was last modified: 08-06-2007 08:04 PM by tdilly.

geezzzzzzzzzzzzzz Bad Boy

When I hear a bird chirping or a note of music too beautiful for words,
you Lord speak to me,
for I hear you ...

When I touch the smallest leaf or run my fingers down a mighty eucalyptus tree,
you Lord are there,
for I feel your presence ...

When I see a bright sun or the inspiring glow of the moon at night,
you Lord are watching me,
for I see your face ...


When my loved ones hug me or my friends
soothe me with loving words,
you Lord are caring for me,
for I feel your embrace ...



~ Jessica Salzone ~

Wow...Wink that is so beautiful...Red