Prayers for all,

[Cycler]

But posted anyway.

Bummer Knees Wrote:Body Builder is speaking of a messages posted on facebook by former members
of the forum.

The messages were posted on my wall, and the delete button has been put to good use.

This has nothing to due with this forum or current members of this wc forum.

[jayne]

sometimes you need to explain other things to make em understand....we now understand what they were talking about the NLH cant come on and continue the mind games here so they post em other places it still hurts cycler these were supposed to be friends.....no worries we now know who cant be trusted with our hearts......

[Cycler]

what's NLH ?

[admin]

I just wish people would take a moment to EXPLAIN that. It causes a lot of unnecessary angst here, and to be perfectly honest, it is not really fair to our members.

I'm a bit over it already.

[admin]

Cycler Wrote:what's NLH ?

"No longer here", or "those we do not speak of"

[Bummer Knees]

Yes Cycler posted anyway.

It was suggested the thread be explained.

[Bad Boy Bad Boy]

I like BobyBuilder, good people.

But, I have to say this.

This is the second Thread I have seen and read, that doesn't belong here!

If there is CHAOS at another Board, another Forum, another Message Board, take the problem up there, not here, as it isn't a problem of this Forum.

I'm on several Boards, and I have always stated that, yet, I never bring up chaos from other places onto this Forum.

As we can clearly see, that what happens in other places, makes people uneasy about it here, and it's not needed here is it?

[red1030]

I agree Badboy that what happens on another thread should not be aired here, however I do understand how Body Builder is feeling. This is very confusing situation but it is a situation that needs to be put in the past and we all need to move forward. However, if you are a member of facebook and our past members are still friends of some here, then it could create a concern for others. For instance, Facebook is a different path of sharing information than it is here. It is a RSS thread as I understand it. Consequently, if one of my friends is a friend of one of our past members (which I am happy about because I don't want them to feel completely forsaken) and this friend makes a comment on one of our past members threads or one of our past members makes a comment on one of our current friends threads then you can see the discussion depending on how each person has set their security measures. If you don't want our past members to see you, you have to set your security measure to only Friends, no Friends of Friends which is a default setting. However, you can't control how the others set their security measures. If they set it with friends of friends then me being a friend of one of our past members will also see their thread of discussion. Thankfully, even in the last situation as Bummer referred to there is a delete or Hide button that can be used. I just learned about that recently. I used it and it removed a lot of heartache for me. I can't see any of their discussions and prefer not too. Body Builder, if you will do the same, you will not see it either. Pm me if you need help with this. Do not leave due to past issues that are no longer a part of this forum. Lets all just move forward ... Body Builder you were and are a blessing on this forum. Red

[Bad Boy Bad Boy]

Red, I understand what your saying, but I don't support other boards chaos onto another board or Forum. Handle it there and not here, as it makes people uneasy here. meaning it doesn't belong long here, and I don't support it being here. The rest is left to ADMIN, as I only voice an Opinion about it.

[red1030]

Bad boy I agreed with you...I just explained how it happens and it potential effects on people..and then described how to remove the issues. Red