A personal message to BILLYBUBBA

[GeenasLovingMommy]

[quote=billybubba]
I really thought I was done, but I just thought of something. Open your eyes and really look at what is happening here. You're like the comeback kid! You lie about dying, and everyone rallies around you. You claim everyone hates you, and everyone rallies around you. Prncess left because of YOUR nasty PM's and Reputations, and EVERYONE RALLIES AROUND YOU. I make a post taken completely out of context, and everyone rallies around you.

I really don't understand it, but you are very, very good. You are the king of this board. I did not understand what happened or why Prncess left when she did.

But I certainly do now.

Hi Billy,

Hope your day is going well thus far. You know im not a fan, but I must tell you in his defense the reason I left. It wasnt because of him, it was because of me and me only. I am a very sensitive person, always have been, suspect I always will be. Therefore, I took a lot of the things here too personally and probably would again, therefore not really posting or reading much. Yes, his comments and such bothered me, but so did many other things that I let stir until I just spewed them out in a post. I'm not going to get into the middle of this mess at all, but felt compelled to fill you in on the truth since you did mention my name. Other than Admin, the only other person that can make you leave is you. I'm the "you" in this scenario.

Have a good weekend.

[red1030]

Princess...I am really proud of you...Red

[queenbee]

Why is this kind of stuff going on here, use pm to send this stuff , i know we are all stressed out but none of this applies to workmans comp

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queenbee Wrote:Why is this kind of stuff going on here, use pm to send this stuff , i know we are all stressed out but none of this applies to workmans comp

Qeenbee, that's one of the reasons why the OFF TOPIC Forum (this one) was created. Why PM this stuff when it is started in the open public forum and should be addressed in the open forum? Especially when one needed open support on the matter.

Love your butterfly...and welcome to the OT forum!

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Lilly Wrote:An intervention from the Heavens would be welcome now.
Please, please all.....calm down, careful what you say, and be nice to each other! We must all rally to assist, comfort, and help each other through the hard times we all have. 9:00 tonight, peace prayer, EVERYONE please!!!
Lilly

Lilly!
Thoughts are things---and if I don't like things I eat them for breakfast...
...I'm not talking about eating BillyBubba for breakfast...I actually love the little feller, no matter what! Now, I don't love - like in LOVE him - but I do offer him a great biggo hug, see......'cause he jus might need one about now! I jus luv everybody, no matter how I address them. I luv you, too, 'cause I think you are a sweetie!! And by the way...I'd love to find you a swell avatar. Jus tell me about what you would like!

[ksgirl]

I'm with you Lilly! I guess I must have missed a few things because i am not at all sure what happened. I know there have been problems before, I'm not sure exactly what, but I am here for anyone that needs an ear. Maybe we should all try to think before we speak. Some people may take things wrong, even when we mean them to be funny. I know I would never intentionally try to hurt anyone and I hope there is so one else like that here. You have all helped me so much, in so many ways and I am just thankful that this board is here.

[jayne]

we are a family and like a family sometimes we get on one anothers last nerve...better to shout it out and get it over with than let it fester

[Still in Limbo]

Imsckofit, I answered you on the Thread titled for you, if you can, Please take a moment to read it, and I Hope it Helps!

Billy Bubba, You said your piece in an above Post, and you are now dragging other People in on your issue. Why don't you just let it rest? If you are truly here to Help others not get injured as you say, you should have also learned with the amount of time you've been on here that everyone has Bad Days, Pain, Meds. Exhaustion, etc. Instead of launching into a Major Riff, why don't you try to learn a little understanding of the Emotional Roller Coaster an Injured Worker has to live on and show Compassion? The only way you can properly Teach is to have Complete Knowledge of the issue you are Teaching, and no matter how safe you try and make a workplace, someone is still going to get injured. Are you going to Deal with these People after they get Hurt? If so you should start to learn the Psyche of the already Injured Worker and understand arguing and name calling is not Teaching, nowhere near. I think you should look deep inside and decide why you are really here, and if it's to Teach others to be safe and deal with the injured, that's what you should do LEARN from the sidelines how we handle each other when we are down, and use it in your studies. My opinion only, if you don't understand the entire situation and Emotions of the many of us who have to live in Pain, Depression, Loss of Income, Complete Life Altering changes, and the list goes on, you should be listening, not adding fuel to the Fire of someone who is Truly Hurting, Confused, Depressed, and in need of guidance from those who understand!! Silence is Golden, especially if it is used for learning as you say you are, and nothing more than an Apology should be said from This point on! THAT'S MY STORY AND I'M STICKING TO IT!!!

[chrischris]

ChrisChris wrote:

Quote:And for BillyBubba, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. That is one of the first lessons learned in growing up. Thank you.

Billybubba wrote:
(and Chris and Jayne, thanks for bailing on me. Although Jayne, being called a "turd" by you has a special honor, I am sure)

BillyBubba, I didn't bail on you. You have always been one of my favorites with your great sense of humor and writing skills.

I haven't answered one single post by Imsckofit since his faked death, until this one. Remember, I was the one who stuck up for him on his behalf when everyone else thought he was a faker, and I got burned. In more ways than you know, or that I will say here on a public forum. I haven't trusted him, and I still don't, but BillyBubba, he was reaching out for support.

BillyBubba, I can't say for sure if you can or cannot totally understand that concept. He could have done it dfferently but he didn't. He needed support and he got it from many loving and caring people on this board. When a brother/sister is down, you don't kick them, you put your personal feelings aside and help them. That is what I did. Imsckofit is a brother to me with the connection we have with the RSD. I do stupid things. Some days I can't believe what I posted the day before and feel embarrassed. I don't join in a lot of the touchy/feely threads, until I'm so down I feel it's the only out I have at the time. Having a life-altering injury takes it's toll on the human psyche, and also with RSD there can be physiological changes as well. There are several of us here, and we stick up for each other. Until a few weeks ago, I had never met another human being in real life who has RSD. Do you know how lonely it is to have RSD, a disease that isolates you, and brings you to your knees in pain, nerve pain that is like electrical bolts shooting thru your extremities?

BillyBubba, I've had to educate a couple of my doctors on RSD, and if you would like some info, or anyone else for that matter, I would be more than happy to email/fax/pm it to you.

BillyBubba, With your job, you provide a much needed service to employers who are at a loss in dealing with WC issues. My husband just had his First employee, ever, file a claim and without a doubt it is fraudulant. We are dealing with that now. Kind of ironic.

I am taking a couple of days off to work on another project. My emotions are out of control right now. I am seeing a Spine Surgeon in 2 weeks to discuss decompression surgery options, and knowing I have RSD, I'm scared to death.

Are we ok? I still think you should write. You have a gift.

[Pooh]

Ok kids - All go to your rooms now !!!!!!!!!!

Enough of this, I mean for real.

flippin out - I understand and live with tos daily and have for quite some time. No I don't have RSD - so I don't know that pain, but I do have peripherial neuropathy which is similar and live with that daily as well.

First thing you can do for you - is to start making things better for you around your home - easier for you to get around, reach, etc. this will help lesson your pain in the long run.

Secondly, you need to accept your disability yet instead of being filled with anger about it. Yeah I know easier said than done - but it can't be changed, you can do some exercises to make the tos a little more livable but then your also dealing with rsd and I am not sure of the effects there. Once you start on accepting your disability, then it may be easier for you. is all I am saying.


Billybubba -

What can I say - you do have a difference sense of humor and you joined us looking for info to help make things better for your plant and I give you a *high five* for that. Some people may take it wrong, but guess they don't think of things like I do. What can I say - I am an odd ball.


So now both of you go to your rooms and cool off !!!

Really I have nothing against either of you - just I hate to see bickering on the boards period.