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1171... why? - red1030 - 02-21-2008

Well I guess I am finally going to do it. I am going to break my golden rule. I use to always say to my staff, “Once it is said, you can never take it back, so just don’t say it.” You see people forgive a less than desirable remark but will they ever forget it? When you say something negative, you not only tear down the other person, you tear yourself down in the midst of people even more. When I was studying leadership through the Navy and through my Masters program through Widener University in Chester PA, and my master’s degree through Detroit State, the then it continued throughout my PhD program at the University of Phoenix. The one thing that stood solid was that leaders are servants. They are servants to those that leaders lead. Leadership is responsibility. It is more than a powerful position or anything that most people appear to think. When a child is born, a new parent walks in to the most important role they will ever have in their life, and as such, a person who claims to have information and that promotes them toward a person of influence on others such as yourself, has a responsibility. You see it is easy to be a boss or a manger, but to be a leader means you care and you are concerned about the “whole” person not just the person who punches the clock from 7-3 etc.
I don’t believe that I am a self righteous person but I do believe I have earned in my life the right to understand and recognize leadership, powerful knowledge, or just plain bully behavior. I will mail you copies of my transcripts of my fitness reports and early promotes and if you like, my list of ribbons and why I recieved them from the United States Navy, or if you like I will send you the department of health reports of my homes before I arrived and then after I arrived. I have a reputation and a name as a cleaner of long term care in NJ, and that was accomplished through influencing my staff to stand with me and to help me. Without them I am nothing. You, 1171, on the other hand, are just plain mean and rarely very helpful to the “whole” person.
So why am I saying this. I am saying all of this not to pump me up but to say that unless you understand how the remarks damage and hurt people you are no good to anyone. I am not part of a girl gang, but I am proud to say that I am part of this forum of caring loving people who are so full of love for each other, that someone like you (here goes the breaking of my golden rule) dip so low to scare and injure the very reason there is a forum like this has no place on our forum. I can’t tell you to leave, and I would not dare to presume that I could, but I can tell you from my heart, that you are lower than the garbage that my husband takes to the curb every Wednesday. You have been mean since I first came here, and twice now, I was going to leave and not return because I could not stand your cruelty towards others. You must truly be a very sad individual to be so mean.
I have sat on boards with all kinds of individuals and I have seen some rather less than desirable tactics to make others look bad hoping to gain some recognition for themselves, but I have never seen anyone be so low as too kick people who are in pain, have lost most of their hope except what they can give back to others or who are basically stressed with just the everyday attempt to live. Who are you? Did God give you a license to be mean, or are you the one who created so much harm for Job? Did your mother raise you to open mouth and insert foot without any concern or care about the people around you? Where you ever in a War? Most likely not, how sad to live that way? You are a coward and a coward of the worst kind. You don’t even deserve to have your name on the same page as a Still in Limbo or a Wink or Jayne, or Admin.
Please remove you negative remarks and please do not make them anymore. Yes you may make one against me, do it? So what? It has no impact on me at all. I will continue to play my games, paint my prizes, and sent them out at my cost to the people who are the reason there is a forum in the first place. I will continue to be a part of this family and you will not. Understand however, as always life is about choices. You have chosen to be who you are. I can’t imagine that you have one mirror in your home, because it would break when it looks upon your black heart.

Ok…I have said it, and I won’t take it back. Admin, I apologize for being childish. If this wasn’t so obvious that 1171 treats people poorly, then I would never act this way. I have never even raised my voice in my life time. I rarely feel anger, but I feel it now. 1171 is just mean and rarely does he or she ever really help anyone. I would love to do more research and help people, but I found that I would rather not have any contact with the forum bully 1171… so I found my own way to help. I think you know what I mean.

1171...I am asking you, please show that you do have honor, and stand tall as a man or a women, and do what is truly right ... do not continue to hurt the good people on this forum. As always, Red


RE: 1171... why? - sparkey - 02-21-2008

Did i miss something here?


RE: 1171... why? - sweet tooth - 02-21-2008

i must have missed it to but i respect red and will stand with her if she thinks it was needed then it was needed= hubbie reads on here now and he has ask me why does 1171 have such a smart mouth and so rude


RE: 1171... why? - halftrak - 02-21-2008

Well Red, all I can say is I have met you and you don't have a mean bone in your body, You have given me so much encouragement these past few months on a very difficult period in my life.I have never seen any negative comments made by you to anyone here,I am very proud to be your friend and always will be,Love Halftrak


RE: 1171... why? - jayne - 02-21-2008

1171 never comes here so she/he wont see this....But what she/he wrote to limbo was unacceptable and almost unforgiveable......He is my brother,my friend and 1171 is just plain wrong.....But you wont see an apoligy....you have to have a God filled heart to know your wrong and apoligize....what he/she did was an act of a bully losing power and not liking it.....in the beginning when we were dumb about WC we took her/his bad behavior cuz we felt we needed her/him....But now we the FAMILY have empowered ourselves with knowledge and no longer need to put up with a bully..you ever notice Timothy Belt doesnt feel the need to belittle to fill important and the many on here that give advice without putting someone down......
1171 you owe my Brother an apoligy I suggest you get at it


RE: 1171... why? - admin - 02-21-2008

Red, I looked through all the posts 1171 has made since the 18th. I did not see anything that would prompt the post you left. I am thoroughly confused. Please refer to the specific post to which you object. If it is not a recent one, then what is this post doing here?

Here is a list of his recent posts. Someone review them and tell me what I am missing:
http://www.workerscompensationinfo.com/forums/general/search.php?action=results&sid=e7cf7b318824aec9e81213de6c8810d1


RE: 1171... why? - jayne - 02-21-2008

you know I am sorry Limbo I never read the rep reports I just never found them important....after the first few weeks the novelty wore off and well I just dont go there......IF I HAD SEEN THIS EARILER YOU CAN BET YOUR ALL TERRAIN WHEELCHAIR I WOULD HAVE THROWN A HISSY FIT AND DONE AN OKLAHOMA HAT DANCE ON HER HEAD THAT MOST LIKLEY WOULD HAVE GOT ME THROWN IN THE DUNGEON OF THE WOODSHED......As it is I will say SHAME ON YOU 1171 YOU SELF RIGHTOUS OL ADJUSTER YOU.....And be proud RED cleaned your clock like a lady instead of the way GIRL GANG JAYNE would have........


RE: 1171... why? - Deb - 02-21-2008

admin Wrote:Red, I looked through all the posts 1171 has made since the 18th. I did not see anything that would prompt the post you left. I am thoroughly confused. Please refer to the specific post to which you object. If it is not a recent one, then what is this post doing here?

Here is a list of his recent posts. Someone review them and tell me what I am missing:
http://www.workerscompensationinfo.com/forums/general/search.php?action=results&sid=e7cf7b318824aec9e81213de6c8810d1

Admin, this all refers to a negative reputation post that 1171 left toward Still in Limbo. Hope this answers your question.

Deb



RE: 1171... why? - Bummer Knees - 02-21-2008

The negative vote 1171 made against Still In Limbo was posted on Jan 3, 2008 of this year. Yes, it was very mean and rude of 1171 to post the negative reputation report. and there were words between Still and 1171 about the report and several members of the forum posted in support of Still In Limbo back in January.

Our Still is a wonderful person and his positive attitude and professional character goes a long way in the making of the success of this forum.

1171 does post much useful information on this forum and does "jump in" and post when an IW is looking for answers. I have read negative posts that 1171 has written and feel some IW's leave the forum due to “his” negative words.

Red, I recognize it took a lot for you to write the words you wrote in your post and do support what you wrote.


RE: 1171... why? - backache - 02-21-2008

Frankly 1171 this negative rep sounds more like you than like Still. You sound like a child that is not getting their own way and is retaliating against the more popular person. If Still has a close following of people who are interested in what he has to say it is because he is very knowledgeable and passes his wealth of knowledge on to others in a friendly, kind manner. As far as I am concerned he is a hero, since no matter how badly he is feeling at the time, he will try to help others who are in need of his wisdom and friendly manner. As far as being in a "gang" in the dictionary this word means A group of people , who associate regularly on a social basis. If you mean we are a group organized together under one foreman. I will be proud to have Still as my leader.