08-02-2009, 04:58 PM
Hi all, even though I was a nurse and did work with rehab while in the Navy, I think I don't have enough applilcation experience to answer the questions I am going to ask. So where would I go, but to all of my great friends who have experienced these types of issues.
As you k now my husband Del injured his neck when someone threw a 50lb bag of ice salt from a truck to him and it hit him in his head. that was all w/c ...and it is over. He refused to have a surgery.
What you may not know is that my husband rode and a raced motorcyles most of his young life. He experienced 3 major accidents of which only one was his fault as he was the only involved. He had this accident when he was about 25 and we lived way out in the country....if you have been to the castle..out on roads more curvy that followed a river. One night when he was coming home from his job, he had to move off of the road to miss a couple of deer, unfortuantly he hit a large douglas fir. Totaled the bic, and knocked him out. I was at home waiting waiting ..and it got later and later, so I call his dad who went looking for him and found him in a ditch along side the road still knocked out. We took him to the hospital and found out that his 2,3, & 4 lumbar was herniated, misplaced and fractured. They are still fractured today. He went through al ot fo paint control and has not been on any narcotic to speak of. They wanted to do surgery in 1983, but he refused. However, now, his body has dropped, and the s123 are now affected. Consequently the docts are saying he may have no choice..he must do this surgery. Of course he is going to have it done at the VA since that is our insurance system. We trust them. We have excellent docs here. Anyway... here are my questions:
When he comes home what kind of care will he need from me. I asked of course becasue it is just me, both our children live else where work multiple hours a day. We have two sets of stairs ways in our home, but we are having stair glides put in.
1. The day he comes home will he be able to use the chair to get up to his bed upstairs?
2. What kind of bed will he need to help him?
3. In terms of a shower, what will he need?
4. When do the bandages typically come off. And do they typically use staples or sealed stitiches.
5. How long before he will he typical? He is a diabetic and so this is an issue where food is concerned.
6. What kind of medications for pain will come home with him? Did they help you when you came home?
7. Will a recliner be ok for sitting up in the day? Should he lay on his back, side, or sit up the most?
8. What about bowel habits...was this an issue...
9. What about getting dressed? How did you all get your shirts on? Did you use button up shirts versus pull over shirts?
10. What about pants? Should I buy some stretch top pants versus his typical levis with buttons before he comes home?
11. Is there anything else th at I should consider. I asked this becasue we need to do it before he has the surgery as I don't drive and we do not have a lot of support here to run out for last minute ites. I am planner and want this all planned out well to keep him as comfortable as possible and yet active....
12. how much walking was recommended and on what time frames following surgery.
13. How long will he be in the hospital?
14. How long before he could drive...short distances and how long before he could drive all the way to Oregon again?
I know ..I have a lot of questions...if you could help me, I would really appreciate it. We find out on Thursday of this week if and when... thanks Carol
As you k now my husband Del injured his neck when someone threw a 50lb bag of ice salt from a truck to him and it hit him in his head. that was all w/c ...and it is over. He refused to have a surgery.
What you may not know is that my husband rode and a raced motorcyles most of his young life. He experienced 3 major accidents of which only one was his fault as he was the only involved. He had this accident when he was about 25 and we lived way out in the country....if you have been to the castle..out on roads more curvy that followed a river. One night when he was coming home from his job, he had to move off of the road to miss a couple of deer, unfortuantly he hit a large douglas fir. Totaled the bic, and knocked him out. I was at home waiting waiting ..and it got later and later, so I call his dad who went looking for him and found him in a ditch along side the road still knocked out. We took him to the hospital and found out that his 2,3, & 4 lumbar was herniated, misplaced and fractured. They are still fractured today. He went through al ot fo paint control and has not been on any narcotic to speak of. They wanted to do surgery in 1983, but he refused. However, now, his body has dropped, and the s123 are now affected. Consequently the docts are saying he may have no choice..he must do this surgery. Of course he is going to have it done at the VA since that is our insurance system. We trust them. We have excellent docs here. Anyway... here are my questions:
When he comes home what kind of care will he need from me. I asked of course becasue it is just me, both our children live else where work multiple hours a day. We have two sets of stairs ways in our home, but we are having stair glides put in.
1. The day he comes home will he be able to use the chair to get up to his bed upstairs?
2. What kind of bed will he need to help him?
3. In terms of a shower, what will he need?
4. When do the bandages typically come off. And do they typically use staples or sealed stitiches.
5. How long before he will he typical? He is a diabetic and so this is an issue where food is concerned.
6. What kind of medications for pain will come home with him? Did they help you when you came home?
7. Will a recliner be ok for sitting up in the day? Should he lay on his back, side, or sit up the most?
8. What about bowel habits...was this an issue...
9. What about getting dressed? How did you all get your shirts on? Did you use button up shirts versus pull over shirts?
10. What about pants? Should I buy some stretch top pants versus his typical levis with buttons before he comes home?
11. Is there anything else th at I should consider. I asked this becasue we need to do it before he has the surgery as I don't drive and we do not have a lot of support here to run out for last minute ites. I am planner and want this all planned out well to keep him as comfortable as possible and yet active....
12. how much walking was recommended and on what time frames following surgery.
13. How long will he be in the hospital?
14. How long before he could drive...short distances and how long before he could drive all the way to Oregon again?
I know ..I have a lot of questions...if you could help me, I would really appreciate it. We find out on Thursday of this week if and when... thanks Carol
