08-04-2009, 12:54 PM
08-04-2009, 01:42 PM
Take care of yourself Red. We'll hold down the fort until you get back.
08-04-2009, 03:47 PM
Yes Red, take care of yourself! You come first!!!!
08-05-2009, 07:18 AM
Please take care of yourself Red. We will still be here when you come back so just take your time and get the help you need to feel better. We will be waiting for updates of how you are doing : (
08-05-2009, 11:26 AM
Wow I was not on yesterday and came on today to see new words I missed. And wow Red take care, The game can always wait, your health is more important.
Besides, AQA has to have more time to scout out some more pics,,,,,,.......lol.
Hope you return home quickly........Bronco
Besides, AQA has to have more time to scout out some more pics,,,,,,.......lol.
Hope you return home quickly........Bronco
08-05-2009, 03:28 PM
Hi all.... I am now home. Del is gone and the VA believes that I am now safe. through many tears, and many years of facing what I didn't want to face, I am an abused women. My husband has a voilent program. He has been taken away and now is on his way to Oregon to live with his mother. My life has onece again changed. Hopefully this will be for the best. I am so sorry to all of you who have come to know and love DEl, he truly is a great guy with a horrible strict of violence. He didn't know how not to hit a women to take out his frustruation. I am no longer strong enought to deal with it and the VA sent him away. I am in our apartment. I have to stop this game, but I want you all to know that this is very imbarrassing to me. I have been awake crying all night and wishing I were dead, but thanks to a very loving forum member,,3 to be exact, I know I will get through this and live a longer and better life. So sorry to disapopointment you all. There will be another game and soon.... I do care for you all Red
08-05-2009, 03:40 PM
Red, I am so sorry, but believe me, you have disappointed NO ONE here. You have NO reason to apologize. Do not blame yourself for this. You will remain in the thoughts and prayers of all of us who have come to know, love and respect you here.
08-05-2009, 04:29 PM
My Dearest Red,
Do not be embarrassed! You must face it head on. You and I need to have a talk. When I was married I was a very badly abused woman but I was smart enough to get out of it. I want to talk to you and share some of the abuses I had gone through with my husband. Right now you need someone to talk to and you need someone that has been there and done that. You have nothing to be ashamed of sweetie. The day I came to realize that I had strangle marks across the front of my throat. I use to be a bowler and I had to bowl that night which I was not going to go because I was ashamed of the strangulation marks on my throat and knew I would be questioned. Well, I went bowl that night and yes I was asked questions. I held my head very high and told people the truth and who had done that to me. I wanted the world to know that I was an abused woman at that time and talking about it and admitting it was the best thing for me. I had to let the truth out of what I had been hiding for 13 years. When I finally faced the truth and told the truth it made me feel like I was a human being once again in my life and I now had nothing to hide. You and I have plenty to talk about my friend. I will call you tomorrow as I have a council meeting to attend tonight.
I did not tell anyone but for 14 year our town newspaper does a survery for the best resturants, places to get hair cuts, nails and what ever they can think of for a catagory for people to mail in votes. This year they had a catagory for the person of was the Best Mover and Shaker that did things for the community. There was no clear cut winner in that catagory but I was voted in along with the Sheriff, Mayor, Parish President and our Tax Accessor. This is a really big honor for me because I was the only lay person that received votes. So, tonight is meeting night and I have to continue to move and shake things up in our community.
Sis, I want you to be feeling better tomorrow and I promise you after we talk you will be very shocked at some of that I went through. I will spill my guts to you my dear. Praying for you and I love you dearly sister.
Loving Cajun Hugssssssss,
Sis
Do not be embarrassed! You must face it head on. You and I need to have a talk. When I was married I was a very badly abused woman but I was smart enough to get out of it. I want to talk to you and share some of the abuses I had gone through with my husband. Right now you need someone to talk to and you need someone that has been there and done that. You have nothing to be ashamed of sweetie. The day I came to realize that I had strangle marks across the front of my throat. I use to be a bowler and I had to bowl that night which I was not going to go because I was ashamed of the strangulation marks on my throat and knew I would be questioned. Well, I went bowl that night and yes I was asked questions. I held my head very high and told people the truth and who had done that to me. I wanted the world to know that I was an abused woman at that time and talking about it and admitting it was the best thing for me. I had to let the truth out of what I had been hiding for 13 years. When I finally faced the truth and told the truth it made me feel like I was a human being once again in my life and I now had nothing to hide. You and I have plenty to talk about my friend. I will call you tomorrow as I have a council meeting to attend tonight.
I did not tell anyone but for 14 year our town newspaper does a survery for the best resturants, places to get hair cuts, nails and what ever they can think of for a catagory for people to mail in votes. This year they had a catagory for the person of was the Best Mover and Shaker that did things for the community. There was no clear cut winner in that catagory but I was voted in along with the Sheriff, Mayor, Parish President and our Tax Accessor. This is a really big honor for me because I was the only lay person that received votes. So, tonight is meeting night and I have to continue to move and shake things up in our community.
Sis, I want you to be feeling better tomorrow and I promise you after we talk you will be very shocked at some of that I went through. I will spill my guts to you my dear. Praying for you and I love you dearly sister.
Loving Cajun Hugssssssss,
Sis
08-05-2009, 04:31 PM
to my sister in whom i am well pleased ,we love ya !! sweets and skeeter ,sissy and fancy
08-05-2009, 05:27 PM
Really no surprise here Red, Have wondered and did see it coming. You are loved my friend and all will be well. Take care of yourself, know you have done nothing wrong, you are the victim, We are here for you. God Bless Tuffy