02-27-2009, 06:40 PM
02-27-2009, 07:41 PM
Same here. Hope everything is okay : )
02-27-2009, 10:49 PM
Halftrak,
I have been trying to read but I have not really been posting. I am so very sorry to hear of the hurt that you and your children are going through at this time. It amazes me because I always wonder what makes a person tick. I have been in your shoes but it was the other way around, I left. Could not put up with the abuse any longer. Although I was the one that left, the pain I felt was very real. Something just keeps telling me and I suppose it is because I can still remember my own pain that your husband has to be feeling pain also. This is always a painful situation for all involved. I want you to know that I keep you in my prayers that your husband will grab his head. It does not sound like you did anything wrong but I also strongly believe that the loss of your husbands job is really working on his mind. All of us on here I know will keep praying for your situation to turn around and all of you can be happy once again. God bless you and pm me if you need to talk. I have big shoulders for you to lean on my friend. You take care of yourself and your children and put the rest in God's hands.
Cajun Hugssssssssss,
MJC
I have been trying to read but I have not really been posting. I am so very sorry to hear of the hurt that you and your children are going through at this time. It amazes me because I always wonder what makes a person tick. I have been in your shoes but it was the other way around, I left. Could not put up with the abuse any longer. Although I was the one that left, the pain I felt was very real. Something just keeps telling me and I suppose it is because I can still remember my own pain that your husband has to be feeling pain also. This is always a painful situation for all involved. I want you to know that I keep you in my prayers that your husband will grab his head. It does not sound like you did anything wrong but I also strongly believe that the loss of your husbands job is really working on his mind. All of us on here I know will keep praying for your situation to turn around and all of you can be happy once again. God bless you and pm me if you need to talk. I have big shoulders for you to lean on my friend. You take care of yourself and your children and put the rest in God's hands.
Cajun Hugssssssssss,
MJC
02-28-2009, 08:02 AM
Thanks guys,I am hanging in there,been trying to stay busy to keep from going crazy,It's when I actually sit down that I start to get depressed,just looking forward to my daughter giving birth next wednesday, been trying to give my husband time to think about things, we are still talking over the phone, you have to when you have 4 kids together.I think even if we don't get back together I am also leaving, just haven't figured out where yet.He got a job about 200 miles from here, my son is missing him I can tell and that is hard to deal with.Thinking about going down there on spring break so my son can see his dad, I also have family down there I can stay with.I'll be ok, thanks for caring.
02-28-2009, 02:57 PM
Halftrak thanks for posting and letting us know you are okay.
Good luck on the grandbaby! Keep us updated with the baby news!
Good luck on the grandbaby! Keep us updated with the baby news!
02-28-2009, 04:20 PM
Keep those Kids Close, and Give them All the Love they need Half, I'm Sure the are Confused as He** Right Now, even the Older Ones! I went through a Period in My Life when I was about 11 or so when My Parents Split for a While, and it was Tough and Hard to Understand! Be Well, and I Hope things get Easier as Time goes On!!

03-01-2009, 11:46 AM
we really need to find time for a visit is Okla city closer than Tulsa for you? My kids are wanting a trip to the zoo and I hear Ok city has a great one.....maybe in apr or may?if we go there maybe undercover angel can meet us in Ok city.....