this lady is pushing it with me,i'm doing everything she wants and it not good enough.she sends crappy e-mails to me and i have been having computer problems,so getting her info has been hard and i told her that.then she tells me last week twice i need to hire a full time babysitter for my daughter,witch by the way has pneumonia and a 101-103 degree fever and im about to lose it on her,well i did,just sent her a e-mail back that she will not like.i have had it with her telling me what to do with my daughter and life,she can kiss my,well you know.it takes alot for me to get mad but lack of sleep and pain,then my daughter getting sick and this lady,im gonna give it to her if she keeps up.she is to call later today or tomorrow,she better not start it could get ugly.sorry all im doing what i can and she is pushing me to the end and im gonna blow.a person can only do so much and to tell me what to do with my daughter is out of line.............thank all hurt and busy this is why im not around because of this lady,you go find a job,even though there are none,but do it any way.ya ok.sorry im pi@@ed.
mmmmmmmmm no problem hurt thats what we are here for.......if she insist on full time day care then she should pay for it.....that alone should shut her up......my thoughts only of course.....
Be Well Hurt My Friend, and if She keeps Pushing, I Surely would Push Back!! The Other Week-End when My Daughter Rolled Her Truck, and Left the Scene from Shock, the Truck Roof was Crushed almost Flat, and Laying on the Drivers Side with the Frame Wrapped around a Tree. The State Troopers were looknig around at the Truck, and I asked the Trooper for My Piece of Mind to Please Shine the Light under the Drivers Door so I could be Sure She wasn't Under the Truck. He Looked at Me and Said "This is a Crime Scene, the Rescue Squad did that, and I don't Like People Walking through My Crime Scene"!! I Snapped Back, "What You are Calling a Crime Scene is My Daughter's Well Being, and I want to be Sure She's not Under that Truck"!! His Attitude Changed Immediately when He Looked at it that Way and Shined the Light for Me. Sometimes People get so Caught Up in Their Work they Forget they are Working with Peoples Lives and Well Being, and they have to be Reminded! I'm Sure You'll get Your Point across if Needed, and Please take it Easy, and Rest when You Can!!
Hurt, I hear what you are saying. I saw the Voc-Rehab lady last week and she even told me " No matter what we re-train you for, odds are there will not be a job out there for you". Maybe the current employment crisis will change some WC laws for the better. Go ahead and vent, we all need to at some point.
hurt i'm sorry you are going through that. she needs to back off. your daughter is not the reason you are not working, your injuries and the no jobs out there situation is why you're not. but since you are home with your daughter and she is sick with pneumonia, just love on her and follow dr's orders. try not to worry about some hatefull woman who has nothing better to do than harass you. deal with her later. take care of yourself too!
Grab a big bottle of MIDOL and hand it to her next time she starts ragging on you
Tell her your daughter is being raised the right way and you certainly don't need her opinion on how to do this. She is probably one of these women who doesn't even have children, but knows everything about them. I would certainly ask her how many kids she has the next time she starts up. Good luck and vent whenever you like.
Please learn how to attach this job log and update and email every Friday.
Also, I provided you with the names/phone & contact persons for 4 dealerships who are accepting applications for future openings. You did not include those on your list on the 19th. They were sent to you on the 18th. I also left a message for you to call me on the 18th. I spoke with your wife who took the message.
I will need for you to follow up with these employers and on the leads I will be sending to you (as I can locate them).
Please learn to attach documents and make sure it prints out onto 1 page for easier reading. I have given you 2 resources for this and would expect you can master it by this Friday. Good luck with the direct face/to face applications and bring a copy of your resume for their files and ask how often you can check/call back.
It there any chance you could get a job/position at the dealership owned by family?
this is a nice one and i told her i was having coputer problems and could not do attachments untill it gets fixed.im not going to post the sh@t ones shes sent.
This rehab persons main focus is to get you back to work. Of course she does not care if you have a kid or not. Next time she tells you to get a babysitter you tell her that you will send the bill weekly to her. Shis woman does sound pushy and if she keeps it up I would report her and get someone else.
PS. Hope your daughter feels better : )
I do feel for you, Hurt...I am pretty much in the same situation, maybe even worst. They are trying to dump me back to the work force at the worst possible time, when even the healthy ones can't find any job. They don't even have to wait if I can find any or not, if IME doc releases me, they can just cut my benefits right away.
My previous voc rehab firm two years ago, they were pretty decent, after I met them face to face. They recommended re-training, but the $4000 that time wasn't enough, so they recommended pension. In turn, my claims manager fired the firm, hired the current one, where they dance as w/c whistles. These people, they don't even recommend re-training now, although the amount jumped this year to $12000 for the training and that would be better than the previous $4000.
I hope your daughter is well by now and regarding this rehab person, just don't let her poison get to you. Your family comes first, no matter what and for their sake, try to be calm and strong. Don't let her stupid e-mails get to you, that's what they want, to make you angry so they can say, you are not co-operating.
My best wishes to you.
Kat