I don't want this Post to become One of Anger or Resentment, and I don't want Anyone to Stay Away from this Thread, it's not an Easy Thread for Me to Write, My Heart is kind of out there on My Sleeve, and I am Asking for Opinions from ANYONE who feels they can Help in this Tough Time in My Life. Let's not Look at each and Every Thought or Opinion as an Attack on One another, this is for My Parents and My Brother, it's actually not even for Me! I Believe in My Opinion Only that Jayne was getting a Point Across to Me, and Explaining Her Previous Post. I Believe You have done everything in Your Power to get along with Your Mother Cap., and Your Mind is at Ease, and I Believe Jayne feels the Same also. I Honestly feel that was an Example to Me, not a Judgment of You Cap. And I'm not taking Sides, I'm only Voicing My Opinion. Admin., Maybe You can Close this Thread, and if anyone would Like to PM Me I would Really Appreciate it, I don't want this to become anything Filled with Anger, and it May have Run it's Course! Thanks Everyone for Your Input, and Thank You All!
Still- prayers going up for your brother and parents as well as you and Ellen, look within your self and find peace in the things from the past. Make peace with your brother so you will be able to except what the lord has for you to deal with in the coming days. Know I am hear if you need me.
you are right Limbo I was giving my experience only.........NOW HEAR THIS....I am not judgeing you Cap only you can do that....I was telling what I went thru and the pain I felt when I knew I couldnt do anything else with the relaintionship with MY SISTER....it had nothing to do with you....I didnt want Limbo to suffer the same pain....Now I apoligze if for some reason you took it personal I assure you there is no bone up my hinney with your name on it....I gave that to the dogs months ago..you and your need to fuss is not my problem but yours...I will not be drawn into another fuss with you nor will I run and hide because of your insecurities and need to be in the topic of every conversation......If you dont like me oh well ....leave me alone....if you put a topic on here be prepared to get many opinions ....if you answer be prepared to get many answers ....it is the nature of the beast.....But please dont blame me because you are unable to cope with someone or something that doesnt agree with you...Tuffy always playing the peacemaker,sorry ol girl in this case she wants no peace ......So Sorry Limbo I am proud you did what you did.....you are my hero....it is hard to do....but you did it again I am proud you are my friend....
Limbo I am so very glad things worked out for you and your family. God bless all of you and I will continue to pray for your brother's health.
Jayne you miconstrue everything. Please get over yourself because as you critique me you are actually describing yourself. For your info, me being the center of every conversation. I was on vacation for a week and didn't post. Did you notice? Or did anyone else? NO! I'm not even missed when I'm not here, but boy oh boy your best buds are. You control this forum anymore. The center of attention!!!! You are kidding. You are a bossy, pushy, judgmental woman who is always shoving her opinion as being Gospel down everyone's throat. We have PTSD for different reasons. I have mentioned this before. You call me too sensitive. You really know nothing about me.That's right. I'm having a hard time right now controlling the God awful tears I shed for those suffering in this country and world who I can't help. Again I come here for refuge and you have to go at it.
I really thought at least one person would have noticed I wasn't here for a week. But of course that's being too sensitive. Don't take anything out on Tuffy. She's not keeping peace. We really wanted to meet but I just can't do it.
Limbo do as you wish. I won't visit this post again.
Capricorn
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh God as my witness I love you Cappy I really do ...I am so sorry we didnt post a where is cap thread.....We didnt post a where is RNVic thread either and she hasnt been on in 2 weeks....or a where is snowbear or wink or AQA or sweet or any of the others that havent posted this week either......Bossy yep opinionated yep judgemental mmmmmmmmm can I get back to you on that one?center of attention geez I hope not as it is a phobia of mine.....in your face accept me as I am yep thats all me.....And Cappy I dearly love you warts and all
Still,
I truly believe you did what our Lord and savior wanted you to do, called your brother. You have put the olive branch out there for him to grab on to but that will be his choice. You are a wonderful human being that is full of nothing but kindness. You have done everything that our Lord would ask of you. You are there for your parents and their needs and you reached out to your brother. Our Lord has nothing more to ask of you as you have done what your heart has told you to do. It is a wonderful thing you did but I would not expect anything else from such a wonderful, kind, compassionate and loving human beinglike you. You are a great example of what a human being should be. When you lay your head down to sleep tonight please be at ease and content with yourself. You should honestly have no regrets, you did your best. Sleep well my friend and if you do need to talk you can pm me anytime. I will continue to pray for your brother, your parents and first and foremost you my friend. You know the prayers from this group are very powerful. You take care of yourself and your family. Rest my friend, rest and release that heavy heart that you have been carrying since your brother became ill. May God bless you and keep his loving arms wrapped around you today and forever. Love ya friend and please tell your wife hello from this lil cajun lady.
Cajun Hugssssssssssss,
MJC
I do not often weigh in on issues such as this, instead I usually have to come in and mop up afterwards. Jayne certainly knows I've come in to slap her hand from time to time, but CAP, I am sorry, I don't see it here. I did not see the "personal affront" that you apparently saw.
This thread was a highly personal one and should never have been taken down this path. You obviously have things going on in your life that extend well beyond this board. Please do not let them manifest themselves here in these very public spats.
Still, I do not have a lot of time to keep up with these posts, (you will note I often go weeks without posting) and I am late to your request to close this thread. I will do that after this post.